Mediation as an Effective Approach for Modifying Parenting Plans and Visitation in Florida

Attorney/Mediator Beth Reineke

Certified Florida Divorce Mediator & Family Law Attorney

30+ Years of Experience

In the realm of family law, the dynamics of relationships can evolve over time, often necessitating adjustments to parenting plans and visitation schedules. Florida law provides a structured framework for these modifications, and one increasingly popular and efficient method to navigate these changes is through pre-suit mediation. As Attorney/Mediator, with over 30 years of experience in family law, I am well-versed in the advantages of utilizing mediation to modify parenting plans and visitation arrangements, offering couples a viable alternative to the traditional litigation process.

Understanding Parenting Plan Modifications in Florida

A parenting plan in Florida is a legally binding document that outlines the responsibilities and time-sharing arrangements between parents regarding their children. It addresses crucial aspects such as visitation schedules, decision-making authority, and communication protocols. However, life is unpredictable, and circumstances may change, leading to the need for modifications in parenting plans.

Some common reasons for modification include:

  1. Relocation: If one parent needs to move a significant distance away, modifications to the parenting plan are often necessary to accommodate the new circumstances.
  2. Change in Work Schedule: Alterations in employment schedules can impact a parent's availability for visitation, potentially requiring adjustments to the plan.
  3. Children's Age and Needs: As children grow, their needs and preferences change. Modifications may be necessary to reflect these evolving needs.
  4. Healthcare or Education Needs: If a child's healthcare or educational requirements change, adjustments to the parenting plan may be required to ensure their best interests are met.

The Role of Mediation in Parenting Plan Modifications

Pre-suit Mediation offers a cooperative and less adversarial approach to resolving conflicts related to parenting plan modifications. As a mediator, I have found that this process can be particularly beneficial for couples who wish to avoid the emotional strain and financial costs often associated with traditional litigation. Here's how pre-suit mediation works in the context of parenting plan modifications:

  1. Voluntary Participation: Both parents must voluntarily agree to participate in pre-suit mediation. This willingness to engage in open communication sets a positive tone for constructive problem-solving.
  2. Neutral Mediator: A skilled mediator, like myself, serves as a neutral third party. My role is not to provide legal advice or opinions but to facilitate productive discussions between the parents.
  3. Focused Dialogue: During mediation sessions, parents have the opportunity to discuss their concerns and propose modifications to the parenting plan. This open dialogue promotes understanding and collaboration.
  4. Creative Solutions: Mediation allows for creative solutions tailored to the unique needs of the family. Parents can jointly develop modifications that consider the best interests of the children.
  5. Court Approval: The final agreement is submitted to the court for approval.

However, typically, the court approves the parent’s agreement without the need for a hearing.

  • “She mixed her life experience, and legal training, with patience, logic, and persuasion, to move our case forward to a more thoughtful, and peaceful resolution, for everyone involved.”

Advantages of Mediation for Parenting Plan Modifications


  1. Cost-Effectiveness: Mediation is often more cost-effective than litigation, as it reduces the need for lengthy court battles and multiple attorney fees.
  2. Time Efficiency: Mediation can lead to quicker resolutions compared to the often protracted litigation process.
  3. Preservation of Relationships: Mediation fosters a cooperative atmosphere, which can help parents maintain amicable relationships for the sake of their children.
  4. Confidentiality: Mediation sessions are confidential, providing a safe space for open discussions without the fear of public exposure.
  5. Empowerment: Parents are active participants in the decision-making process, which can lead to greater satisfaction with the resulting modifications.


As a seasoned family law attorney and certified Florida divorce mediator, I understand the intricacies of parenting plan modifications and the profound impact they can have on families. Pre-suit Mediation offers an effective and compassionate alternative for couples seeking to modify their parenting plans and visitation schedules. By fostering open communication and collaboration, mediation empowers parents to make decisions that prioritize their children's well-being and minimize the emotional toll of legal disputes.

If you find yourself in a situation where you and your co-parent are considering modifying your parenting plan, I encourage you to explore the benefits of Pre-suit Mediation. By working together to find common ground, you can navigate these changes in a way that promotes harmony, preserves relationships, and upholds the best interests of your children.

Our Approach Sets Us Apart

  • Supreme Court Certified Mediator

    Not all mediators are licensed attorneys - Beth Reineke brings legal experience and practical insights to the mediation process.

  • Over 3 Decades of Legal Experience

    Reineke Mediations has over 3 decades of legal experience in helping families find divorce resolutions. 

  • Litigation Free

    We believe any aspect of divorce and custody can be resolved without a courtroom fight. Beth Reineke has experience with mediating complex property division, entrenched custody disputes, and high-stakes alimony and child support issues. Reineke Mediations provides creative suggestions, gentle guidance, and reality check wisdom from years of hard work in courtroom wars.

Is Mediation the Right Choice?

We offer free phone consultations and reasonable rates for mediation, drafting of agreements, preparation of court documents and other mediation services. During your initial consultation, attorney Beth Reineke will discuss the benefits of mediation and alternative dispute resolution (ADR), and whether these methods are the right fit for your situation.

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Call Now to Learn More About Litigation Alternatives During a Free Consultation

Our parenting plan and custody modification lawyer in Tampa regularly mediates custody disputes for parents from Temple Terrace, Brandon, Wesley Chapel, Clearwater, St. Petersburg, and throughout the Tampa Bay Area. We invite you to contact us to discuss your case during a free consultation so we can help you determine whether determining custody and parenting plan matters outside of court is right for you and your family. 

Contact us online or call (813) 205-6675 for a free phone consultation with Tampa parenting plan and custody modification mediator, Attorney Beth Reineke. 

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