What Makes a Family Law Mediator Truly Qualified? Why Not All “Certified” Mediators Are Equal
|When Florida couples begin exploring alternatives to a traditional courtroom divorce, mediation is often the first—and best—option. But once you decide to mediate, a new question arises: Who should guide you through it?
While many professionals hold a “certified mediator” designation in Florida, not all mediators offer the same depth of legal knowledge, family law experience, or practical insight. That distinction matters—especially in high-stakes family issues like divorce, parenting coordination, and financial settlements.
Understanding what makes a mediator truly qualified can help you make a confident, informed choice. At Reineke Mediations, Tampa family law attorney-mediator Beth Reineke draws from more than 30 years of legal experience and over 25 years as a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator to help couples reach effective, sustainable agreements.

Certification is a Starting Point—But Not the Whole Story
In Florida, becoming a certified family mediator requires approved training, observation hours, and adherence to ethical standards. These requirements ensure a baseline of professional competence. However, certification does not equal specialization, nor does it guarantee a deep understanding of the law or the complex dynamics that often emerge during divorce or custody disputes.
Many certified mediators come from a variety of backgrounds—education, counseling, business, or law. Some are excellent facilitators with strong communication skills but may not have in-depth legal training or courtroom experience. This isn’t a flaw, but it’s essential to understand what different mediators bring to the table.
A truly qualified mediator will:
- Be familiar with Florida family law and how courts interpret agreements.
- Understand the financial implications of decisions like property division or support.
- Recognize emotional and legal power imbalances and keep discussions fair.
- Know how to draft agreements that are legally enforceable and clear.
- Knowledge about local, sometimes unwritten, court rules unique to your county.
When it comes to matters that affect your finances, your parenting, and your future, choosing a mediator with this comprehensive experience can make a lasting difference.
Beth Reineke’s Legal and Mediation Experience Sets Her Apart
Attorney Beth Reineke has dedicated her career to resolving family law disputes, with and without litigation. She practiced as a commercial litigator and also as a Florida family law litigator for over 15 years. She was Board Certified in Marital and Family Law by the Florida Bar Association for much of that time. This achievement recognized her trial expertise, deep knowledge, and professional ethics.
Today, Beth focuses exclusively on out-of-court solutions. For over 20 years, she has served as a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator, conducting thousands of successful mediations for couples seeking divorce, parenting plans, or post-judgment modifications.
Her additional training as a Collaborative Divorce Professional, Parent Coordinator, and Arbitrator further strengthens her ability to guide couples through emotionally and legally complex conversations.
Beth Reineke’s credentials include:
- 30+ years as a licensed Florida attorney.
- 15+ years of courtroom experience as a commercial and family law litigator.
- Former Florida Bar Board Certification in Marital & Family Law.
- 25+ years as a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator.
- Trained Parent Coordinator and Arbitrator.
- Degree in Finance from the University of South Florida.
- Dozens of published legal articles and an instructor for many continuing education classes.
This combined legal, financial, and facilitation experience helps Beth offer both legal literacy and practical solutions—a rare combination in the mediation field.
Why This Level of Experience Matters to You
Every family is different, but divorce and custody issues often bring up complex questions about finances, children, real estate, support, taxes, and long-term obligations. Without guidance from someone who understands the whole picture—legally, financially, and emotionally—agreements can fall apart, become unworkable, or require future court intervention.
Working with someone who has drafted, litigated, and settled countless family law disputes ensures that your agreement will stand up to real-world scrutiny.
Beth Reineke helps couples:
- Identify legal and financial issues they may not have considered.
- Avoid common drafting pitfalls that create confusion or conflict later.
- Structure fair, enforceable solutions that reflect their goals and Florida law
- Reduce stress and tension by keeping the process calm, respectful, and focused.
- Resolve divorce or family disputes in 6-8 weeks in many cases.
Choosing The Right Mediator For Your Family’s Needs
Beth believes that mediation should be empowering, not overwhelming. Whether you are dividing marital property, developing a parenting plan, or modifying a previous order, you deserve a process that is informed, efficient, and fair.
While many mediators are qualified and committed, not all bring the same depth of experience and legal insight. When the stakes are high, it’s worth choosing someone who can anticipate challenges, guide tough conversations, and help you avoid costly legal missteps.
Beth’s calm presence, practical wisdom, and extensive credentials make her a trusted neutral for couples throughout Hillsborough, Pinellas, and Pasco Counties—and beyond.
Contact Our Skilled Florida Family Law Attorney-Mediator Beth Reineke Today
If you are exploring mediation as an alternative to courtroom litigation, Attorney/Mediator Beth Reineke offers the knowledge, experience, and neutrality you can rely on. Call (813) 205-6675 or contact Reineke Mediations online to discuss your unique family law mediation needs during a free phone consultation and learn whether mediation is the right path for your family.